Fantastic 4 Breaking Point

The Norm in relationships?!?

Guys I need your advice. I’ve been with my partner 4 yrs, he was or is the man I’ve always dreamed of being with, someone funny, caring, loving and attractive. We have our dream little boy, and have just moved into our dream house. I’m very happy yet over the past few days we have had the most horrendous rows, one unbelievably starting over a broken cake stand!, ( Knowing in the big pic this is pathetic). Point is things he’s done lately have really started to niggle me, silly things farting, picking his nose, chewing his toenail, he’s quite clumsy bashing into things and breaking things – hence the cake stand! this clumsiness I used to find endearing as I can be a little dizzy, which he’s always seen as cute and was always upset my previous partner had not). I snap at him alot because he doesn’t seem to think. He’s the most fantastic father and partner yet he’s admitted doing things purposely to wind me up therefore am I right to feel like this?!,

I know what you mean. I wouldn’t like the fact that he does things on purpose just to wind you up BUT, just try and think of what it would be like without him. Things like…..would it bother you to see him sharing his life w/someone else and that someone else also being a part of your sons life; no more waking up/going to bed with him; knowing that he won’t be there to come home to or him coming home to you after a long day; or you dating again and trying not to compare your new partner to your ex…you say he’s the man you’ve always dreamed of being with and that he’s a fantastic father….the list can go on and on. It’s the little things that seem to bother us the most at times, I know. Sometimes people get “comfortable” w/each other, hence the picking of his nose and biting toenails, maybe just ask him to do those things when you’re not around. Think of the big picture. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Communication is key. Good Luck!

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